We are professional printers and would like to give you a short reply :
in a professional situation (i.e. high-end monitors at high end prices) a kind of 'screen-mouse' is used to scan the screen colors and compare them to the standard color, generally the PANTONE MATCHING SYSTEM (PMS) which is world-wide used. To modify the colors on your screen, you either need to change your monitor settings or the software settings in the monitor controller card in your computer. If you would get this sorted out, the next step is to calibrate your printer. This is even a bigger problem considering, the different kinds of printers and media used (laser, ink-jet, whiteness of the paper, paper type, ...). We can assure you that printed proofs ressembling almost perfectly the presumed result on a press (offset, screen, digital) are very costly an dcan only bet obtained with $$$$ investments.
Conclusion : to get matching screen colors and printed colors is only possible in a professional situation with high investments and a permanent calibration of the equipment.
Regards,
Peter Warmoes
ASF Printing - Belgium