@sizbut... my bad

. i should know better than that! sorry for the lame question, but im going crazy with this. i know its not supposed to be this hard....
01/07 08:18:57.798 vmprov5s (14,2) 345c,379c: emailerThrd - SendRequest failed for 398\MSG00044, error Unspecified error (80004005)
01/07 08:18:57.871 vmprov5s (14,2) 345c,3040: CSMTPConnection:

isconnect: An unexpected QUIT response was received
01/07 08:18:57.925 vmprov5s (14,2) 345c,3040: emailerThrd - SendRequest failed for 398\MSG00046, error Unspecified error (80004005)
01/07 08:18:58.051 vmprov5s (00,?) 345c,379c: SMTP file size - 500
01/07 08:18:58.131 vmprov5s (09,5) 345c,379c: CMailSocket::Create: Receive buffer size is 0x10000 bytes (64K)
01/07 08:18:58.131 vmprov5s (09,5) 345c,379c: CMailSocket::Create: Send buffer size is 0x10000 bytes (64K)
01/07 08:18:58.178 vmprov5s (00,?) 345c,3040: SMTP file size - 183
01/07 08:18:58.232 vmprov5s (09,5) 345c,3040: CMailSocket::Create: Receive buffer size is 0x10000 bytes (64K)
01/07 08:18:58.232 vmprov5s (09,5) 345c,3040: CMailSocket::Create: Send buffer size is 0x10000 bytes (64K)
01/07 08:18:58.600 vmprov5s (14,5) 345c,379c: CMailSocket::EnableSSL: SSL connection using ECDHE-RSA-AES256-SHA
01/07 08:18:58.600 vmprov5s (14,5) 345c,379c: CMailSocket::EnableSSL: SSL connection using cipher <ECDHE-RSA-AES256-SHA SSLv3 Kx=ECDH Au=RSA Enc=AES(256) Mac=SHA1
>
01/07 08:18:58.705 vmprov5s (14,5) 345c,3040: CMailSocket::EnableSSL: SSL connection using ECDHE-RSA-AES256-SHA
01/07 08:18:58.705 vmprov5s (14,5) 345c,3040: CMailSocket::EnableSSL: SSL connection using cipher <ECDHE-RSA-AES256-SHA SSLv3 Kx=ECDH Au=RSA Enc=AES(256) Mac=SHA1
>
01/07 08:19:03.921 vmprov5s (14,2) 345c,379c: CSMTPConnection::SendMessageA: An unexpected MAIL response was received
01/07 08:19:03.981 vmprov5s (14,2) 345c,3040: CSMTPConnection::SendMessageA: An unexpected MAIL response was received
01/07 08:19:04.186 vmprov5s (14,2) 345c,379c: CSMTPConnection:

isconnect: An unexpected QUIT response was received
01/07 08:19:04.239 vmprov5s (14,2) 345c,379c: emailerThrd - SendRequest failed for 398\MSG00049, error Unspecified error (80004005)
01/07 08:19:04.245 vmprov5s (14,2) 345c,3040: CSMTPConnection:

isconnect: An unexpected QUIT response was received
01/07 08:19:04.299 vmprov5s (14,2) 345c,3040: emailerThrd - SendRequest failed for 398\MSG00074, error Unspecified error (80004005)
01/07 08:19:04.492 vmprov5s (00,?) 345c,379c: SMTP file size - 308
01/07 08:19:04.546 vmprov5s (09,5) 345c,379c: CMailSocket::Create: Receive buffer size is 0x10000 bytes (64K)
01/07 08:19:04.546 vmprov5s (09,5) 345c,379c: CMailSocket::Create: Send buffer size is 0x10000 bytes (64K)
01/07 08:19:04.551 vmprov5s (00,?) 345c,3040: SMTP file size - 330
01/07 08:19:04.604 vmprov5s (09,5) 345c,3040: CMailSocket::Create: Receive buffer size is 0x10000 bytes (64K)
01/07 08:19:04.604 vmprov5s (09,5) 345c,3040: CMailSocket::Create: Send buffer size is 0x10000 bytes (64K)
01/07 08:19:05.031 vmprov5s (14,5) 345c,379c: CMailSocket::EnableSSL: SSL connection using ECDHE-RSA-AES256-SHA
01/07 08:19:05.031 vmprov5s (14,5) 345c,379c: CMailSocket::EnableSSL: SSL connection using cipher <ECDHE-RSA-AES256-SHA SSLv3 Kx=ECDH Au=RSA Enc=AES(256) Mac=SHA1
>
01/07 08:19:05.102 vmprov5s (14,5) 345c,3040: CMailSocket::EnableSSL: SSL connection using ECDHE-RSA-AES256-SHA
01/07 08:19:05.102 vmprov5s (14,5) 345c,3040: CMailSocket::EnableSSL: SSL connection using cipher <ECDHE-RSA-AES256-SHA SSLv3 Kx=ECDH Au=RSA Enc=AES(256) Mac=SHA1
>
01/07 08:19:10.300 vmprov5s (14,2) 345c,379c: CSMTPConnection::SendMessageA: An unexpected MAIL response was received
01/07 08:19:10.366 vmprov5s (14,2) 345c,3040: CSMTPConnection::SendMessageA: An unexpected MAIL response was received
01/07 08:19:10.542 vmprov5s (14,2) 345c,379c: CSMTPConnection:

isconnect: An unexpected QUIT response was received
01/07 08:19:10.605 vmprov5s (14,2) 345c,3040: CSMTPConnection:

isconnect: An unexpected QUIT response was received
01/07 08:19:10.622 vmprov5s (14,2) 345c,379c: emailerThrd - SendRequest failed for 398\MSG00084, error Unspecified error (80004005)
01/07 08:19:10.659 vmprov5s (14,2) 345c,3040: emailerThrd - SendRequest failed for 398\MSG00087, error Unspecified error (80004005)
01/07 08:19:10.874 vmprov5s (00,?) 345c,379c: SMTP file size - 2869
01/07 08:19:10.912 vmprov5s (00,?) 345c,3040: SMTP file size - 275
01/07 08:19:10.966 vmprov5s (09,5) 345c,3040: CMailSocket::Create: Receive buffer size is 0x10000 bytes (64K)
01/07 08:19:10.966 vmprov5s (09,5) 345c,3040: CMailSocket::Create: Send buffer size is 0x10000 bytes (64K)
01/07 08:19:10.967 vmprov5s (09,5) 345c,379c: CMailSocket::Create: Receive buffer size is 0x10000 bytes (64K)
01/07 08:19:10.967 vmprov5s (09,5) 345c,379c: CMailSocket::Create: Send buffer size is 0x10000 bytes (64K)
01/07 08:19:11.468 vmprov5s (14,5) 345c,3040: CMailSocket::EnableSSL: SSL connection using ECDHE-RSA-AES256-SHA
01/07 08:19:11.468 vmprov5s (14,5) 345c,3040: CMailSocket::EnableSSL: SSL connection using cipher <ECDHE-RSA-AES256-SHA SSLv3 Kx=ECDH Au=RSA Enc=AES(256) Mac=SHA1
>
01/07 08:19:11.551 vmprov5s (14,5) 345c,379c: CMailSocket::EnableSSL: SSL connection using ECDHE-RSA-AES256-SHA
01/07 08:19:11.551 vmprov5s (14,5) 345c,379c: CMailSocket::EnableSSL: SSL connection using cipher <ECDHE-RSA-AES256-SHA SSLv3 Kx=ECDH Au=RSA Enc=AES(256) Mac=SHA1
>
01/07 08:19:16.855 vmprov5s (14,2) 345c,3040: CSMTPConnection::SendMessageA: An unexpected MAIL response was received
01/07 08:19:16.921 vmprov5s (14,2) 345c,379c: CSMTPConnection::SendMessageA: An unexpected MAIL response was received
01/07 08:19:17.099 vmprov5s (14,2) 345c,3040: CSMTPConnection:

isconnect: An unexpected QUIT response was received
01/07 08:19:17.112 vmprov5s (14,2) 345c,379c: CSMTPConnection:

isconnect: An unexpected QUIT response was received
01/07 08:19:17.152 vmprov5s (14,2) 345c,3040: emailerThrd - SendRequest failed for 398\MSG00115, error Unspecified error (80004005)
01/07 08:19:17.165 vmprov5s (14,2) 345c,379c: emailerThrd - SendRequest failed for 398\MSG00099, error Unspecified error (80004005)
01/07 08:19:17.403 vmprov5s (00,?) 345c,3040: SMTP file size - 847
01/07 08:19:17.417 vmprov5s (00,?) 345c,379c: SMTP file size - 3037
01/07 08:19:17.468 vmprov5s (09,5) 345c,3040: CMailSocket::Create: Receive buffer size is 0x10000 bytes (64K)
01/07 08:19:17.468 vmprov5s (09,5) 345c,3040: CMailSocket::Create: Send buffer size is 0x10000 bytes (64K)
01/07 08:19:17.496 vmprov5s (09,5) 345c,379c: CMailSocket::Create: Receive buffer size is 0x10000 bytes (64K)
01/07 08:19:17.496 vmprov5s (09,5) 345c,379c: CMailSocket::Create: Send buffer size is 0x10000 bytes (64K)
01/07 08:19:18.084 vmprov5s (14,5) 345c,379c: CMailSocket::EnableSSL: SSL connection using ECDHE-RSA-AES256-SHA
01/07 08:19:18.084 vmprov5s (14,5) 345c,379c: CMailSocket::EnableSSL: SSL connection using cipher <ECDHE-RSA-AES256-SHA SSLv3 Kx=ECDH Au=RSA Enc=AES(256) Mac=SHA1
>
01/07 08:19:18.105 vmprov5s (14,5) 345c,3040: CMailSocket::EnableSSL: SSL connection using ECDHE-RSA-AES256-SHA
01/07 08:19:18.105 vmprov5s (14,5) 345c,3040: CMailSocket::EnableSSL: SSL connection using cipher <ECDHE-RSA-AES256-SHA SSLv3 Kx=ECDH Au=RSA Enc=AES(256) Mac=SHA1
>
01/07 08:19:18.941 DbgOut (01,5) 11372,13252: DllMain(hinstDLL=0x10000000, fdwReason=DLL_THREAD_DETACH)
01/07 08:19:23.394 vmprov5s (14,2) 345c,379c: CSMTPConnection::SendMessageA: An unexpected MAIL response was received
01/07 08:19:23.406 vmprov5s (14,2) 345c,3040: CSMTPConnection::SendMessageA: An unexpected MAIL response was received
01/07 08:19:23.636 vmprov5s (14,2) 345c,379c: CSMTPConnection:

isconnect: An unexpected QUIT response was received
01/07 08:19:23.699 vmprov5s (14,2) 345c,3040: CSMTPConnection:

isconnect: An unexpected QUIT response was received
01/07 08:19:23.715 vmprov5s (14,2) 345c,379c: emailerThrd - SendRequest failed for 398\MSG00119, error Unspecified error (80004005)
01/07 08:19:23.752 vmprov5s (14,2) 345c,3040: emailerThrd - SendRequest failed for 398\MSG00117, error Unspecified error (80004005)
01/07 08:19:23.965 vmprov5s (00,?) 345c,379c: SMTP file size - 273
01/07 08:19:24.004 vmprov5s (00,?) 345c,3040: SMTP file size - 254
01/07 08:19:24.005 vmprov5s (09,5) 345c,379c: CMailSocket::Create: Receive buffer size is 0x10000 bytes (64K)
01/07 08:19:24.005 vmprov5s (09,5) 345c,379c: CMailSocket::Create: Send buffer size is 0x10000 bytes (64K)
01/07 08:19:24.084 vmprov5s (09,5) 345c,3040: CMailSocket::Create: Receive buffer size is 0x10000 bytes (64K)
01/07 08:19:24.084 vmprov5s (09,5) 345c,3040: CMailSocket::Create: Send buffer size is 0x10000 bytes (64K)
01/07 08:19:24.586 vmprov5s (14,5) 345c,379c: CMailSocket::EnableSSL: SSL connection using ECDHE-RSA-AES256-SHA
01/07 08:19:24.586 vmprov5s (14,5) 345c,379c: CMailSocket::EnableSSL: SSL connection using cipher <ECDHE-RSA-AES256-SHA SSLv3 Kx=ECDH Au=RSA Enc=AES(256) Mac=SHA1
>
01/07 08:19:24.589 vmprov5s (14,5) 345c,3040: CMailSocket::EnableSSL: SSL connection using ECDHE-RSA-AES256-SHA
01/07 08:19:24.589 vmprov5s (14,5) 345c,3040: CMailSocket::EnableSSL: SSL connection using cipher <ECDHE-RSA-AES256-SHA SSLv3 Kx=ECDH Au=RSA Enc=AES(256) Mac=SHA1
>
01/07 08:19:29.887 vmprov5s (14,2) 345c,379c: CSMTPConnection::SendMessageA: An unexpected MAIL response was received
01/07 08:19:29.943 vmprov5s (14,2) 345c,3040: CSMTPConnection::SendMessageA: An unexpected MAIL response was received
01/07 08:19:30.127 vmprov5s (14,2) 345c,379c: CSMTPConnection:

isconnect: An unexpected QUIT response was received
01/07 08:19:30.158 vmprov5s (14,2) 345c,3040: CSMTPConnection:

isconnect: An unexpected QUIT response was received
01/07 08:19:30.206 vmprov5s (14,2) 345c,379c: emailerThrd - SendRequest failed for 398\MSG00121, error Unspecified error (80004005)