lisa33,
If you want to configure your XP as a VPN server to enable incoming connections, follow the following:
To make an incoming network connection, Open Network Connections. Under Network Tasks, click Create a new connection, and then click Next.
Click Set up an advanced connection, and then click Next.
Click Accept incoming connections, click Next, and then follow the instructions in the New Connection Wizard.
Notes:
To open Network Connections, click Start, click Control Panel, and then double-click Network Connections.
You must be logged on as a computer administrator to complete this procedure.
Peping