thank you mr. Lewis for your input!
I am always affraid to mix technologies that are not native and have that concern that there is a "middle finger" waiting to pop up in your face....especially when you are bout 85% done with the project

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"Sorry this function is not available...so go ahead and re-design your project in another programming language" is exactly what I want to avoid.
I saw a whole bunch of plug-ins...but you know how it is with managers, they don't like to hear:
"only x amount of $$$ this month...and then $50-100 for this plugin and then another plugin...etc." Its hard to explain to management (higher positions then myself)why would they have to pay for something that "the only thing it does is to connect to DB".....or makes a little field or whatever.
After I looked arround and read about CMDL it seemed as if it had some nice functions to it...but as I said in my case we all contribue to the retirement plan of mr. B.Gates and soley depend on win platforms so might as well use what I have.
I used win2000 Pro with IIS 5.0 for my ASP and I know some will argue about the security and all arround hack attempts on IIS but I think its as safe as any other product IF configured right.
App. server is actually FMPro 6 rather than server version. I know some will also argue...oh get the server version...but I don't think it's worth the money diffrence between the two -FOR ME. Yes, the functions of back up etc. but even this can be worked arroud with some batch files and scheduling so the standard version works just as well. How?
TechScheduler and some File Closing scripts on the DB and bam! you have a backup system.
OK If you want to run a mega site then include the concurrent conections aspect of it and get the server version...
At the bottom of it all you/we really need is a "box" to store the data...you can make the "box" out of paper and buy a lot of glue or make it out "wood" and get a bunch of nails!
Anyway, enough of my ramblings I hope this helps in someones process of though....it did to me!
Thanx Lewis