I would not install them together. IN fact, I don't think they will intall on the same server. You can get a DL320 for something like 500 bucks on ebay to run either of the systems.
TFTP - Trivial File Transfer Protocol
When the phones boot up, the get and IP addresses via DHCP (usually) and check for the option 150 parameter in the DHCP information. If option 150 is specifid (the callmanager tftp server), it then tries to connect to the TFTP server, specied in option 150, to download firmware, if needed, and its configuration file.
Callmanager has its own TFTP server built in. You cannot use a Cisco phone out of the box without some sort of call processing software (i.e. SIP server, Callmanager, Cisco router running CCM Express, etc).
It is what it is!!
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