Remote Desktop is a feature of Windows XP only. You can download a client that will allow Windows 2000, 98, 95, NT to connect to an XP computer - however that target machine MUST be Windows XP.
With that said - Remote Desktop is kind of a mix between Remote Control and Terminal Services. It's controlled in a per-session basis (like Terminal services), requires an authenticated logon (like terminal services), and allows you to work as an admin using your desktop, have someone else logged in seeing their own desktop (not yours), and work completely separate from you.
The problem with that is having 5 users connected at the same time..all unaware of what others are doing..and trying to use AOL (only one modem).
For this reason only I would have to say terminal services or Remote desktop is not your best bet. If the PC were connected to the internet via high-speed (maybe it is?) then Remote Desktop would be a viable option..not quite as feature-packed as terminal services, but it uses sessions as Remote Admin/Remote Control software does not.
If you're sharing a dial-up AOL account, you only want one person at a time connected to the machine. If you're on high-speed, then many users can browse the internet at the same time in their own Terminal services or Remote Desktop environments. Note - using terminal services or remote desktop does NOT allow you to view their sessions either...kinda scary. But - they will only have the permissions you assign them as users on that PC - not local admin rights unless you assign them as admins on that pc.
It's a toss-up. Really up to how you want to manage it, how secure you want it to be, and what resources you have available to work on this. You'd need Windows XP to use Remote access, and you'd still have the modem-sharing issue with dial-up. Remote Administrator/Remote Control is the best option if single-sessions are the goal otherwise what's to keep people from logging off of their terminal session/Remote Desktop session?...they probably would stay connected all day.
Sorry for the long posts..but these are all technologies that are fairly hard to explain. I've used all methods (including remote desktop), and switched back to Remote Administrator. You just cant beat the simplicity and security. You'd just have to lock the user procedures down more with RAdmin.
Hope that helps. pbxman
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