This is what was listed in an equipment's manual. I have used it as a defacto standard. I hope you find this helpful.
Signal RJ45 Pin
TXD 3
RXD 6
DTR 2
DSR 8
DCD 7
RTS 1
CTS 5
GND 4
The color code on the RJ-45 to DB-X adaptors are:
1 Blue
2 Orange
3Black
4 Red
5 Green
6 Yellow
7 Brown
8 White
When cabling up a DB9 connector, I ususlly put Black to pin 2, Yellow to pin 3, and Red to pin 5. I don't usually use the other wires as I typically either edon't use handshaking or I short RTS (DB9 pin 7) and CTS (DB9 pin 8)together.