Hi,
I am assuming from your post that you have not actually submitted your site to any search engines but instead are just expecting it to appear.. If this is the case, do not rely on this..
Go to
and add your site there.
Just because you have a site in no way means that you will automatically be added to all the search engines, this does not happen.
Some search engines may find your site, others may not. Submit your site to as may different search engines and directories that you possibly can.
If a search engine spiders one of the sites linking to you then your site may also be indexed. This also doesn't always happen.
On a lot of engines, the more sites that link to you, the higher placement you will have.
Some people say to avoid free for all link pages but in my personal experience, this does not harm your results. For one of my sites 90% of keywords I optimised the site for returns results within the top 2 on google, yahoo and also a few other major engines and no 1 on a lot of smaller engines.
Go through your pages and change the body text so that you are fitting in as many keywords as possible.
Most engines won't include your sites for months after you submit it or even after your site is spidered..
To start you off, I have a link in my sig to a search site that I built and I aim to include all sites in less than 48 hours, sometimes a few hours and it will be included..
Nothing like a good plug for your own site!!
Hope this helps Wullie