Thank you all for the help on this! I think this proves that the CO is sending a connect:
09:15:49 96690341mS ISDNL3Rx: v=1 peb=1
ISDN Layer3 Pcol=08(Q931) Reflen=2 ref=0026(Local)
Message Type = Connect
And, here's a larger portion of that part of the call. I hope this helps some other IP Office internet users with forcing AT&T's hand!
09:15:49 96690164mS PRN: Monitor Status IP 500 V2 9.1.12.0 build 213
09:15:49 96690165mS PRN: LAW=U PRI=1, BRI=0, ALOG=4, VCOMP=10, MDM=0, WAN=0, MODU=0 LANM=0 CkSRC=1 VMAIL=1(VER=3 TYP=1) 1-X=0 CALLS=7(TOT=589)
09:15:49 96690339mS ISDNL1Rx: v=1 peb=1
0000 02 01 66 04 08 02 80 26 01 1e 02 82 88 ..f....&.....
09:15:49 96690339mS ISDNL2Rx: v=1 peb=1
0000 02 01 66 04 08 02 80 26 01 1e 02 82 88 ..f....&.....
09:15:49 96690339mS ISDNL3Rx: v=1 peb=1
ISDN Layer3 Pcol=08(Q931) Reflen=2 ref=0026(Local)
Message Type = Alerting
InformationElement = PI
0000 1e 02 82 88 ....
09:15:49 96690340mS ISDNL3Evt: v=1 stacknum=1 State, new=Delivered, old=Proceeding id=3582
09:15:49 96690341mS ISDNL2Tx: v=1 peb=1
0000 02 01 01 68 ...h
09:15:49 96690341mS ISDNL1Rx: v=1 peb=1
0000 02 01 68 04 08 02 80 26 07 ..h....&.
09:15:49 96690341mS ISDNL2Rx: v=1 peb=1
0000 02 01 68 04 08 02 80 26 07 ..h....&.
09:15:49 96690341mS ISDNL3Rx: v=1 peb=1
ISDN Layer3 Pcol=08(Q931) Reflen=2 ref=0026(Local)
Message Type = Connect
09:15:49 96690342mS ISDNL3Evt: v=1 stacknum=1 State, new=Active, old=Delivered id=3582
09:15:49 96690342mS ISDNL3Tx: v=1 peb=1
ISDN Layer3 Pcol=08(Q931) Reflen=2 ref=0026(Remote)
Message Type = ConnectAck
09:15:49 96690342mS ISDNL2Tx: v=1 peb=1
0000 00 01 04 6a 08 02 00 26 0f ...j...&.
09:15:49 96690343mS ISDNL1Tx: v=1 peb=1
0000 02 01 01 68 ...h
09:15:49 96690344mS ISDNL1Tx: v=1 peb=1
0000 00 01 04 6a 08 02 00 26 0f ...j...&.
09:15:49 96690344mS CMCallPkt: v=0
CMAlerting
Line: type=Q931Line 1 Call: lid=0 id=3582 in=0
IE CMIEProgressIndicator (30) cs=CMCSITUT (0), loc=CMLPublicNetLocalUser (2), pd=CMPDInbandPattern (8)
09:15:49 96690345mS CMLineRx: v=1
CMAlerting
Line: type=Q931Line 1 Call: lid=0 id=3582 in=0
IE CMIEProgressIndicator (30) cs=CMCSITUT (0), loc=CMLPublicNetLocalUser (2), pd=CMPDInbandPattern (8)
09:15:49 96690345mS CMCallEvt: c0a8030800000dfe 0.3582.0 589 Q931 Trunk:1 CHAN=15: StateChange: END=B CMCSAccept->CMCSRinging
09:15:49 96690346mS CMCallEvt: c0a8030800000dfb 0.3579.0 589 GHOST:: StateChange: END=A CMCSDialled->CMCSRingBack
09:15:49 96690347mS CMCallPkt: v=0
CMConnect
Line: type=Q931Line 1 Call: lid=0 id=3582 in=0
BChan: slot=0 chan=15
09:15:49 96690347mS CMLineRx: v=1
CMConnect
Line: type=Q931Line 1 Call: lid=0 id=3582 in=0
BChan: slot=0 chan=15
09:15:49 96690348mS CMCallEvt: c0a8030800000dfe 0.3582.0 589 Q931 Trunk:1 CHAN=15: StateChange: END=B CMCSRinging->CMCSConnReq
09:15:49 96690348mS CMCallEvt: c0a8030800000dfb 0.3579.0 589 GHOST:: StateChange: END=A CMCSRingBack->CMCSOGConnReq
09:15:49 96690348mS T1DSP: PRIU DSP 1: channel 15 (timeslot 30), digit receiver DTMF fast *
09:15:49 96690349mS CMExtnRx: v=131, p1=0
CMConnect
Line: type=NoLine 0 Call: lid=0 id=-1 in=0
09:15:49 96690349mS CMCallEvt: c0a8030800000dff 0.3583.0 588 UserNameReplaced.0: StateChange: END=T CMCSRinging->CMCSConnReq
09:15:49 96690350mS CMCallEvt: 0000000000000000 0.3577.0 588 TargetingEP: RequestEnd c0a8030800000dff 0.3583.0 588 UserNameReplaced.0
09:15:49 96690350mS CMTARGET: c0a803080000000a 1.10.1 588 Q931 Trunk:1 CHAN=1: CancelTimer CMTCCoverageTimeout
09:15:49 96690350mS CMCallEvt: 0000000000000000 0.3577.0 -1 BaseEP: DELETE CMEndpoint f1829798 TOTAL NOW=15 CALL_LIST=7
09:15:49 96690351mS CMExtnEvt: UserNameReplaced: CALL LOST (CMCauseAnsweredByOther)