At first you asked about a software firewall, but later you said you were planning on using a secure router.
I surfed a bit on suspicion, and it seems that a secure router performs the firewall functions you'd desire. For instance:
If you are going to use a secure router, then you already have a firewall, and you shouldn't use software firewalls on any machine so protected. That is at least redundant, and could produce double-filter problems (I still hate corporate proxies, can't you tell?).
At first cut, I imagine that you will pipe your DSL feed from the DSL box to this secure router, and then to a wireless hub. There are certain advantages to this chain of boxes, but you may run the idea by your DSL provider that you want to convert the DSL box (ostensibly a router itself) into a DSL+Firewall+Wireless unit if such a thing is available. If you can get a unit cheap enough, then there will be only one unit to configure. DSL and cable companies have a range of provisions for customers who want to use their own cable modems or DSL routers.
But connection-wise, DSL->firewall->hub is simplest by chaining those boxes together. And if any one of them fail, it's almost a brainless exercise to get it replaced.
Check with your DSL provider to see what changes they will accept to your equipment end. They should be OK with discussing your home-network plans with you. After that, you can at least look around for wireless secure routers.
I assume this is home use, and you'll note that I expressed no concern (nay, not a whit) for wireless security. The wardriving threat is overrated unless you live in a big city area, especially the apartment complexes.
So, do you have any particular security concerns about your wireless emissions?