Sure,
In the correct event, after you handle it you just set the Row and col properties to what ever you want them to be. For example:
Private Sub grd_Click()
With grd
MsgBox "Click @ " & .Row & ", " & .Col
.Row = 1
.Col = 1
End With
End Sub
No mattger what row,col is clicked, focus will be set back to row 1, column 1.
Hope that is what you were looking form