Totte and mattcs , I totally agree with you. It all depends where you are coming from either a C,C++ or Pascal background. Mostly,whatever you can do with Delphi you can do with C++Builder and the other way around, but there are some exceptions .BCB can compile Delphi since it also includes the dcc32 compiler while Delphi can't compile C++. Also you can use almost all(there are some freeware components that do not contain bpl and no source) the Delphi components out there. I started of with BCB and now I know Delphi almost as good as C++Builder.
So no matter which one you start using first its easy to then start using the other.