if(Request.Form("feed_me").value == "i_was_clicked"){
//Do what is needed when this button is clicked.
// Maybe rebuild original form as it was if it is not
// time to click the feed_me button
// Or proceed with the step appropriate to clicking this button.
}
//Somewhere keep track to the fact that the feed_me button was clicked. A session variable is most convenient.
Session("feed_me") = Request.Form("feed_me").value