Rickijazz,
I'd like to offer my answer your question #1: How do I set the default directory that PM opens every time? This is a Windows solution: I have PM and my other Adobe products set up as short cuts in a directory on my Desktop. Right click the PM icon (or any other program you wish to do this to) and go to Properties. In the Properties box, go to the Shortcut Tab. On the Shortcut dialog box, look for the Start-Up line and enter the default (start-up) directory you want to always start-up in. In my case, that directory is O:\15c\Data . When I launch PM, it always looks in my target (O:\15c\Data) directory first. This solution is almost universal in Windows. But, there are some programs where you have you have to set the default directory internally thru their own Properties dialog. If you are using MAC, I can't offer a solution, but I imagine the process is similar. I hope this helps. :-D