The 'declined requests' checkbox needs to be at the page level so that the user can select it once and it will apply for all grids. I have six grids so we don't want to have to force the user to select six checkboxes. The grids will show all active requests regardless, but if the checkbox is selected, then I need to show declined requests as well as active one's.
So what I'm doing in my user control is trying the check the state of the checkbox in my DataSource_Selecting event so that I can set the SelectMethod of the DataSource to the appropriate method. Hence my dilemma with accessing the checkbox.