saiedahadi1,
You said -
"i know people will say u need experience but u cant get experience unless u get certified" You do not need certs to get EXPERIENCE, EXPERIENCE will help you get certs!! There are several ways that you can get experience
WITHOUT CERTS such as -
1) Take classes at a community or technical college that teaches hands on classes such as a Cisco Network Academy
2) Get an "entry level" job in the area of your choice and learn by doing with on the job training !!
3) Set up a "home Lab" not quite like this -
but I think you get the ideea and can see that this guy gets as much "experience" he needs as he works towards advanced certs with his lab!!!
As far as where you go next depends on you!! What do you want to do? Networking? Server Admin? Windows Admin? Linux admin?
If you want to work in networking then I would realisticly suggest CCNA over Net +. If you want to work with Windows then the path can be MCP, MCSA and then MCSE, check out Microsoft's website and read about the different levels of certs.
Your best bet is to pick an area you want to go into, setup a home lab to start your hands on experience, look into classes at the local college, GOOGLE for free online resources, user groups and technical forums (like Tek-Tips) for more information!! Also try to find an entry level position, build some experience with the technology as you learn - THEN get that cert and you will not only have the cert but you will know what you are doing AND that will come accross in an INTERVIEW!!!!!
Good luck and I hope this helps!!!
E.A. Broda
CCNA, CCDA, CCAI, Network +