Haazi2,
despite 'job offers' like ...
'wanted: it-professional, bla bla bla, maximum age 30'
... i don't think 'old' guys are better than 'young' ones. i'm currently 29 and i think i don't have that experience of life a guy with 40 or 50 has. IT-experience can be learned, and it looks like you try to get experience, right?
a good friend of mine, he is 39, stepped in the cs-field at the age of 35, before this he got a (german doctors) degree in chemistry and worked as a pharmacy-consultant. today he's in a good position (project manager) with something about 4,000-5,000 euro a month (excl. bonuses).
Listen, you are 36, try to get yourself in gears, IT'S THE BRAIN NOT THE BODY (remember your experience of life!)
wish you a peacful and successful life,
-- martin
p.s. there's a good book, author is bodo schaefer, as far as i know, it's only available in german language. best next thing to recomend is the book of 'napoleon hill', get it yourself, it's interesting... (maybe a little bit naive, but it can help to start thinking about ones life)