Ok I think I was relaying spam by accident. We had a company come in and install our Exchange Server. I told them that I did not want to be a relaying server for the world to use, well I think they did not set it up right because I saw in the connectors all of these domains that looked funny. So I looked at the FAQ's on this site for relaying, I think I turned it off, not sure just yet, but why are the connectors still listed on the SMTP server?