Actually, pins 4 and 5 should come from the Telco, and pins 1 and 8 are the return to the phone equipment. Be sure to use a REAL RJ-31X jack with the "shorting bars", so if the alarm equipment is unplugged, to line is still extended to the phone equipment. The links you reference ARE correct; the terminology is confusing, as "To Network" is the side to the Telco, and "To Telco Wiring" is the side to the phone equipment.