It's two problems. Keeping me from sending the original 2880, and keeping me from sending an additional 2880.
With either system, you're right, it's about equal.
But to send an additional 2880 through eBay, I would have to create 2880 more accounts.
To do it through your system, I only have to wait till you put the emailing script back online.
That, and eBay would not have to shut down their entire system to stop the emails. You would.
I would make people register with the system. When they create an account, send them a confirmation email then. If they confirm through a link your system emailed them, then their account is active. Then only make users log in. Only active users can post, and their posts are visible immediately.
If a jackass like me comes along, you don't have to shut down all activity on your site to stop me. Just start deleting accounts.
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