mailer demons in my spam folder
Do you mean SPAM ? or NDR's ? (Non-Delivery Reports) or is it some kind of security response message from SPAM prevention software / Mail Servers?
How do you know your computer is sending out mails ? What do they contain ?
If it really is, then you are likely to be a spam bot probably created by a virus/trojan of some sort or (quite unlikely) a direct hack.
Either way you are in trouble !
I suggest that you run some free online virus scanners to see if they detect anything (I'm assuming your Antivirus has not picked this up).
If they find it and remove it succesfully, uninstall your current Antivirus (if you have one) and re-install it and update the virus definitions.
Personally I would re-install the OS and make sure that my antivirus was good enough to cope with catching these before they become a problem... though AV is really a last line of defence - make sure you have a firewall installed - there are plenty of free ones out there - just google for it (Sygate and ZoneLabs are worth looking at).
You should also install and use regularly some antispyware apps, there are loads to choose from; Spybot S&D, AdAware and Microsofts AntiSpyware together seem to do a good job.
There are plenty of other simple security tips to ensure this doesn't happen again - google for them, use them and share them.
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