Actually, the controller has a reference to both, since it brokers both access and mutation of the data in the model.
The pattern provides a level of indirection, the controller, between the model and the view, with the goal of thereby making the model and the view more reusable. Application-specific behaviors are as much as possible implemented in the controller.
This is roughly equivalent to the 3-tier model, with model being analogous to data, view to presentation, and controller to business. While the emphasis of the business layer is a bit different (implementing business rules independently of the means of storing and presenting associated data) from that of the controller (brokering interaction between the model and the view) the practical result is more similar, given that the business layer does indeed broker interaction between the data and presenatation layers, and the controller does so in accordance with business rules.
Most of the reusable parts of the MVC pattern are contained in the Model and View, and interactions between them are handled by listeners (i. e. event handlers) in the Controller. However, rather than requiring the Controller to broker data transfers from the Model to the View (which is optional), the pattern makes provisions for direct reference to the Model from the View. This is often more efficient than providing data to the controller and having the controller relay it to the view. Furthermore, mechanisms for gathering and displaying data are typically reusable, as are mechanisms for sending data to a single entry point.
However, the reverse--allowing direct mutation of the model by the view--is not a part of the pattern. Such behavior is not typically reusable, owing to the need for data validation or preprocessing, which work is handled by the controller.
Googling to "MVC Pattern" reveals a good number of articles, although many of them are java-related. Also, this article
looks pretty good for .Net implementation of the MVC pattern. If you're a UML fan, this is a good article to read as well.
Bob