$textfieldfromdatabase = "This is \r\n some text \r\n that i want to delimit";
$str = str_replace(array("\r\n", "\n"), "***{}***", $textfieldfromdatabase);
$array = explode("***{}***", $str);
echo "<ul>";
foreach ($array as $val):
$val = trim($val);
if (!empty($val)):
echo "<li>$val</li>";
endif;
endforeach;
echo "</ul>";