But, if I turn on a red laser, it is emitting red wavelength light. Absorption or reflection has nothing to do with it. Red light is red light.
Light of a certain color's wavelength, is that color. An object that appears to be a color is reflecting that color and absorbing all others.
Yes, if I have a red cricket ball, it is absorbing all wavelenths but red, and I see the red that's reflected (not absorbed).
And the statement that an object that appears red to us is "every color but red" is just wrong. Yes, it may be absorbing every color but red, but it's not "every color but red". That statement just kind of muddles what's actually happening.