Quote: "It just deleted an attachment that I paid $150 dollars for and that user isn't going to want to send another.."
It shouldn't have deleted them if you're using OE 6.0 and have the "do not allow attachments that potentially may contain a virus" box checked. It just hide them so that you have to think about whether it's a legitimate attahcment. I keep the box checked all the time so that I can't accidentally open something I shouldn't when I'm trying to deal with five things at once. When I get an attachment I want, I just uncheck the box, open the email, deal with the attachment, close the email, and recheck the box.
Cheers.