Tim it really seems like you are coming to the SBS forum asking SBS experts for help with a non SBS solution that you have predetermined to be your course of action. If your mind is made up I doubt any amount of reason or sharing of experience will alter your perception which appears to be rooted in a lack of SBS knowledge.
To your specific question, on ANY Windows Server running services such as Exchange there are always files and directories that should not be scanned. For example, only an Exchange compatible AV should scan the database and a file level scanner should not. You need to scan inside the database and not have AV detect the frequent changing of file sizes to be virus activity. As for documentation, every AV company has documentation on this if you read the manual or search their support site. I quickly found a sample on the Microsoft site here:
Likewise Symantec offers a plethora of documents depending on the mail system you are using.
Go to your AV vendors web page and do a search for "directory exclusions."
The argument that there is no time to reconfigure a server but that there is both budget and time to add a second server sounds more to me like you are unsure of the real problems with the SBS box and are looking to move to what you feel more comfortable with from a support perspective. There is nothing wrong with that course of action, but don't disguise it as something it is not.
SBS 2003 is a very mature product being utilized extensively worldwide. The product has been tweaked for optimal performance by Microsoft. If it was not setup properly, that is not the fault of the product. If known problems in the configuration have been left unresolved because of bias, or lack of knowledge that too is not the fault of the product. And finally, if hardware is not suited for the workload, that too cannot be blamed on the product. I have seen all to often Small Businesses under purchase hardware in an effort to save money, despite the fact that the server will essentially be running their entire business. More often than not it is my experience that a new server needs to be purchased, this time following the recommendations of trusted advisors and the new server is built and migrated to over a weekend.
For the question of network topology, it can have a profound effect on performance. Just like an underpowered CPU or insufficient memory can effect performance so can underpowered or intermittently bad network hardware. Problems with switches can often make it appear there are problems with the server such as Outlook saying the connection to the Exchange server has been disconnected. If you are monitoring CPU usage with Netmon the network may very well not be your problem but the question posed by TechSoEasy was certainly valid.
I hope you find this post helpful.
Regards,
Mark
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