I've never worked with Active/Active clusters but logically you only need to clstop it using graceful on that node because for the active/active clusters both nodes access the same resource group! so you don't have to takeover to the other node because that node already sees the resource group!
By the way, the above assumes that you are using cluster-aware application like oracle RAC with RAW volume groups (I guess that's what you meant by Active/Active right?)
Regards,
Khalid