Jack,
Create 3 queries:
Name, Home_PH, Work_PH, Mobile_PH
Where each populates the Name column, and one of the 3 Phone Number types.
Union the 3 queries together.
Group by Name, Home_PH, Work_PH, Mobile_PH
Joe, XXX-XXXX, 'spaces', 'spaces'
Joe, 'spaces', XXX-XXXX, 'spaces'
Joe, 'spaces'...